I have and do use a combination of natural horsemanship to problem solve some issues with horses I've owned in the past. Over the last 6 weeks, however, I have been doing Parelli with my mare and a small group at my barn.
The results have been amazing. The things I can get her to do, and the rate she picks up on what I want from her is almost scary.
Mind you, she wasn't a bad girl anyway. Well broke, well trained, and a sweetie on the ground. She just doesn't quite stay focused on me on the ground, and her ADD kicks in. She tends to be looking everywhere but here, and calling to the other horses, and she sometimes invades my space when I'd prefer her not to, but mostly she walks in circles around me on the lead, or doesn't stay with me off lead.
The first day was incredibly frustrating. Everything just seemed so simple and so easy to do, and yet the horse wasn't getting it. She wasn't standing still, she wasn't responding to the pressure of the stick, she was looking everywhere, calling to the other horses.
Holy cow the difference already. I practice about 2 x's a week with her, and what I introduce to her the first time, she usually has down pat the second time. She stands perfectly quiet and still, she responds now to just the stick in the air next to her, she lunges behind me, she backs up with just a jiggle on the lead, she pivots to change direction to the best of her athletic ability, I've had her lunging through a 24" squeeze opening at the trot, she's LOADING ON THE TRAILER! Happily and willingly! I can get her to drive around the barrels in a pattern with or without the lead rope on her, just responding to the stick in the air next to her. She'll do figure 8's around them, and halt in the middle. She doesn't mind the ball at all, but I haven't done much with that yet.
I plan on introducing her to a tarp this weekend, pool noodles, too, and maybe something different with the barrells. I wish I had a stand, I am confident I could get her to stand up on it by the second day. She's also following me around a bit more off lead - actually giving a hoot that I am there.
But most importantly, the biggest thing I wanted to work with on her- was her attention span towards me. She's staying focused on me. Instead of looking out the arena doors, or if outside, looking across the farm at the other horses, she is keeping an eye and ear on me 90% of the time. It's a huge improvement, and I can literally see the gears in her brain turning - she is truly thinking about what I want, and focusing on me so much more, and that's the whole reason I started the PNH with her in the first place.
I am just interested in seeing how far I can go with it. I pick & choose what I am going to keep, too, and there are things about the training method I do not like and do not want to do - like have her face me when I lunge her and stop her. I want her to stop square when I say whoa where I say whoa, not turn in to me or walk towards me. So I've been teaching her to do just that and she does not face off with me.There are a few other little things that I am refraining from because they don't make sense to me, or I can't see the point. But so far, I have been so amazed with how this is coming along.
I've also noticed the mare's curosity pricking up recently. As Parelli encourages horses to be confident & curious about their environment. My mare has been willing to put her nose on just about anything I point her at, and even walked into the tack room the other day... not something I'd encourage, but it was funny as hell. She stuck her head in the door, then her neck, then she just walked in there like she belonged. She's never done that before, and I think she never would had I not been doing the parelli work with her. She loaded in to the trailer in much the same way, and I think she just figured the tack room door was a tight space I wanted her to walk through, and when I didn't reprimand her for trying it- in she went. It was quite funny. She's a goofy girl. :)
When I am fairly solid with my mare, probably in the winter, I am going to start this stuff with the mini monster and see if I can build any level of respect with her. I just need to find a mini rope halter :)